Tantric Massage
Drop into your senses, connect with your breath, and discover the union between sex and spirit.
What is Tantric Massage?
Tantric massage is a full body massage that aims to integrate sensual pleasure with an awareness of breath, intentional movement of energy, and a unification of our erotic and spiritual nature.
It weaves together a pleasure-filled journey through the senses, while using breath and intention to expand awareness and build toward prolonged orgasmic states.
It provides an opportunity to step into full receivership, where there is no performance, no reciprocation, just the gift of dropping into your own experience.
What to expect
We begin with a check-in, and brief discussion of any goals or intentions that you’re holding for the session.
Once we’re ready to begin, clients have the option to disrobe and we transition to a candlelit, meditative space.
Here, we start the journey with some breathwork and meditation. This is followed by a lengthy full body journey into the senses: music, scent, texture and touch are used to heighten awareness and drop into a luxuriously relaxed state. Your whole body will be slowly and sensually pampered while you’re guided to use your breath and intention to activate your energy centers.
The most important element of the massage is staying present: this means there is no end goal of orgasm. While arousal and orgasm are welcome if they occur, there is no pressure to move in that direction. We allow the body to respond how it will.
Once the massage concludes, we take some time for stillness and integration. This is an opportunity to lay in stillness and let the energy settle in your system. This is a vitally important piece of helping your body remember new and expanded states of being.
After integration, we leave a few minutes for debriefing and sharing any reflections that arose for you during your journey.
No Goal
In Tantric massage there is no end goal of arousal or orgasm. While these things are absolutely welcome if they occur, they priority is on staying in the present moment and deepening into your experience.
Tantric Massage and Trauma Healing
While there is no single solution when addressing trauma, tantric massage can be a beneficial part of the journey for many individuals who are seeking to address sexual trauma in a holistic and embodied way.
When done with a focus on client empowerment and informed consent, it provides a container for pleasure reclamation and the release of old emotions.
Sacred Spot Massge / Prostate + G-Spot MAssage
Penetrative touch is fully optional during the massage. Being touched internally is one of the most vulnerable ways that we can receive, therefore, it is always up to the client to actively choose it.
Both the prostate and the G-spot (urethral sponge) are referred to as the “Sacred Spot” in common Tantric terminology, as they are anatomically related and represent an energetically significant point in the body. The Sacred Spot can hold armouring, and also be a gateway into profound states of release and surrender.
Etiquette
Because of my training in sexological bodywork, I follow a protocol of one-way touch. This means I stay fully clothed, and act solely as a facilitator of the client’s experience, guiding clients to connect to connect with their own body and sensing their own internal flow of energy.
While many of us are conditioned to reach out for mutual touch, I encourage you to take this unique opportunity to focus on yourself and surrender into a fully receptive state.
About Monica
Monica holds certifications as a Sexological Bodyworker and Somatic Sex Educator, and has completed numerous other trainings in psychotherapy, breathwork, yoga, Tantra, kink/BDSM, and Taoist sexuality. She has studied worldwide with prominent teachers including Joseph Kramer, Mantak Chia, Cleo Dubois and Eve Minax. She has been featured on CityLine, Soulspace podcast, and teaches regularly at Oasis Aqualounge’s Sex School Series.
Monica is known for creating a warm and open environment where clients can dive into the most difficult topics surrounding their sexuality. She provides a unique container where clients can explore embodied coaching as well as receive full body touch in a safe and trauma informed environment. She specializes in creating sacred embodiment practices, and helping clients understand and communicate their needs and boundaries.
Monica’s mission is to help build a world where sexuality is no longer taboo, and where we can live in reverence for all of life because we are connected to the sacred within.
Pricing
1.5h - $350