Tantric Massage
Drop into your senses, connect with your breath, and discover the union between sex and spirit.
Come solo or as a couple.
Explore the possibilities below
What is Tantric Massage?
Tantric massage is a full body massage that aims to integrate sensual pleasure with an awareness of breath, intentional movement of energy, and a unification of our erotic and spiritual nature.
It weaves together a pleasure-filled journey through the senses, while using breath and intention to expand awareness and build toward prolonged orgasmic states.
It provides an opportunity to step into full receivership, where there is no performance, no reciprocation, just the gift of dropping into your own experience.
Tantric Massage for Individuals
Treat yourself to an embodied and meditative journey where you can drop into your erotic energy without scripts, expectations or performance. This solo journey is available for men, women, and all folks across the gender rainbow.
What to expect
We begin with a check-in, and brief discussion of any goals or intentions that you’re holding for the session.
Once we’re ready to begin, clients have the option to disrobe and we transition to a candlelit, meditative space.
Here, we start the journey with some breathwork and meditation. This is followed by a lengthy full body journey into the senses: music, scent, texture and touch are used to heighten awareness and drop into a luxuriously relaxed state. Your whole body will be slowly and sensually pampered while you’re guided to use your breath and intention to activate your energy centers.
The most important element of the massage is staying present: this means there is no end goal of orgasm. While arousal and orgasm are welcome if they occur, there is no pressure to move in that direction. We allow the body to respond how it will.
Once the massage concludes, we take some time for stillness and integration. This is an opportunity to lay in stillness and let the energy settle in your system. This is a vitally important piece of helping your body remember new and expanded states of being.
After integration, we leave a few minutes for debriefing and sharing any reflections that arose for you during your journey.
No Goal
In Tantric massage there is no end goal of arousal or orgasm. While these things are absolutely welcome if they occur, the priority is on staying in the present moment and deepening into your experience.
Tantric Massage and Trauma Healing
While there is no single solution when addressing trauma, tantric massage can be a beneficial part of the journey for many individuals who are seeking to address sexual trauma in a holistic and embodied way.
When done with a focus on client empowerment and informed consent, it provides a container for pleasure reclamation and the release of old emotions.
Sacred Spot Massge / Prostate + G-Spot MAssage
Penetrative touch is fully optional during the massage. Being touched internally is one of the most vulnerable ways that we can receive, therefore, it is always up to the client to actively choose it.
Both the prostate and the G-spot (urethral sponge) are referred to as the “Sacred Spot” in common Tantric terminology, as they are anatomically related and represent an energetically significant point in the body. The Sacred Spot can hold armouring, and also be a gateway into profound states of release and surrender.
Etiquette
Because of my training in sexological bodywork, I follow a protocol of one-way touch. This means I stay fully clothed, and act solely as a facilitator of the client’s experience, guiding clients to connect to connect with their own body and sensing their own internal flow of energy.
While many of us are conditioned to reach out for mutual touch, I encourage you to take this unique opportunity to focus on yourself and surrender into a fully receptive state.
Tantric Massage for Couples
Whether you want to gift one another with a special experience, or learn how to provide this beautiful practice at home, sessions can be tailored to your specific desires and intentions.
Explore possibilities
When you come in as a couple, there are a few different ways we can structure your session. Consider which of these possibilities feels most exciting for you.
Learn the skills to create your own tantric massage ritual at home
In this 3 hour educational style session, we’ll be breaking down all the components of how to craft your Tantric ritual. You’ll learn:
meditations for connection and embodiment
breathwork for charging and relaxing the body
techniques for building sensitivity in your hands and artistry in your touch
inspiration for awakening your senses
guided genital massage techniques to help your partner drop into deep, embodied arousal
One partner will be giver, and the other will be the receiver for the entire session.
*A note for singles: If you are currently single but wanting to learn how to provide a Tantric massage, ask about our live demo models who can join your session for an added fee.
Participate in an intuitively guided four handed massage
In this style of session, there is less talk and explanation, and more of an intuitive flow.
One partner will be the receiver and one partner will be the giver alongside Monica. The two givers will intuitively co-create a sensual and connected experience for the person on the massage table. Monica will silently demonstrate different techniques while the giving partner can follow along and emulate the various styles of touch.
In this session, the receiver can fully let go and drop in.
Witness your partner receiving
You may wish to simply gift your partner with this experience, and be present for them to witness their pleasure.
In this style of session, Monica provides the full Tantric massage for one partner, while the other person holds space through their loving attention.
Couples Retreats
Are you interested in going even deeper with your partner?
Learn more about private couples retreats with Monica, where you can explore Tantric connection practices, cultivate your erotic intelligence, and deepen your relationship through an intentional approach to sexuality.
Four Handed Massage
Are you the kind of person who loves being pampered and can’t get enough touch? Have you ever imagined what it might be like to have four hands working on your body, massaging multiple parts at once?
Join me and my colleague, fellow Somatic Sex Educator, Adam Bailey. for an experience of pure erotic playfulness, celebration and joy.
What is a Four-Handed Massage?
In a four handed massage, you have two people pampering you and massaging you at the same time. Imagine one person massaging your head while the other rubs your feet. Or one person giving you a delightful erotic massage while the other feeds you grapes and strokes your body with a feather. The possibilities are endless.
Ask for what you like!
This is your moment to celebrate and indulge. You’ll have the opportunity to share all about your preferences so that the massage feeds your pleasure in every single way.
If you’re not sure what you like, we’re here to offer options and suggestions so you can expand your horizons and gain clarity on your pleasure pathways.
A celebration of the erotic
Whether you choose to incorporate genital touch or not, this is a space where your pleasure, your turn-on and your orgasmic energy are absolutely welcome.
Through a container of one-way touch (meaning you receive touch without reciprocation), you can anchor into an awareness of your own body without any performance anxiety or distractions.
Explore a range of sensations and sensory delights
This is not your typical massage. Here you’ll get to experience a range of sensations from light and energetic, sensual, earthy, kinky, gentle, primal, erotic - the choice is yours in how you craft your adventure.
Tantric Massage for Individuals
90 minutes - $350 + hst
4-Handed Massage for Individuals (with 2 practitioners)
90 minutes - $700 + hst
Pricing
Tantric Massage for Couples
Learn to do it yourself (3 hours) - $575 + hst
4-handed intuitive flow (2h) - $450 + hst
Witnessing (2h) - $450 + hst
Meet Your Practitioners
About Monica
Monica holds certifications as a Sexological Bodyworker and Somatic Sex Educator, and has completed numerous other trainings in psychotherapy, breathwork, yoga, Tantra, kink/BDSM, and Taoist sexuality. She has studied worldwide with prominent teachers including Joseph Kramer, Mantak Chia, Cleo Dubois and Eve Minax. She has been featured on CityLine, Soulspace podcast, and teaches regularly at Oasis Aqualounge’s Sex School Series.
Monica is known for creating a warm and open environment where clients can dive into the most difficult topics surrounding their sexuality. She provides a unique container where clients can explore embodied coaching as well as receive full body touch in a safe and trauma informed environment. She specializes in creating sacred embodiment practices, and helping clients understand and communicate their needs and boundaries.
Monica’s mission is to help build a world where sexuality is no longer taboo, and where we can live in reverence for all of life because we are connected to the sacred within.
About Adam
I am a Sex Somatic Educator-in-Training, currently enrolled at the Institute for the Study of Sex Somatic Education, where I am deepening my understanding of embodiment, intimacy, and healing. My passion lies in helping individuals and couples reconnect with their bodies, explore their desires, and cultivate deeper intimacy through somatic awareness, breathwork, mindful touch, and trauma-informed care.
I believe sexuality is a gateway to self-discovery, and my approach is rooted in curiosity, playfulness, and respect. Whether you’re navigating challenges like disconnection, low libido, or past trauma, or simply seeking to embrace more pleasure, I offer practical tools and embodied experiences to support your journey.
In my work, I also focus on teaching individuals how to identify and set healthy boundaries in their relationships, helping them develop a sense of empowerment and clarity in expressing their needs and desires.
When I’m not immersed in my work, I enjoy activities like CrossFit, tennis, hockey, pickleball, and gaming with friends. I also love going on long road trips and indulging in my passion for food. My insatiable curiosity drives me to continually learn and grow, and I have a deep interest in all things science.
